Wedding Accessories 101: Complete Your Look as Father of the Bride or Father of the Groom

As the father of the bride and father of the groom, your wedding day attire isn’t just about the suit—it’s about the finishing touches that elevate your look.

Accessories add refinement, personality, and polish, ensuring you look well put together without overshadowing the couple.

From classic cufflinks to elegant ties and pocket squares, here’s everything you need to complete your wedding day look with confidence.

Start by exploring wedding accessories tailored for distinguished fathers.

1. The Perfect Tie: Classic or Statement?

Your tie serves as the centrepiece of your accessories, tying your look together. The right tie choice depends on the wedding’s formality:

  • Black-tie weddings → A silk bow tie is a must. Stick to black or dark shades for elegance.

  • Formal weddings → A classic silk necktie in a solid color or subtle pattern is ideal.

  • Semi-formal or outdoor weddings → You can opt for a patterned or textured tie (e.g., linen, knitted silk) for a slightly relaxed yet polished look.

Shop silk ties that enhance your wedding ensemble.

2. Pocket Squares: A Subtle Yet Stylish Touch

A pocket square adds elegance without overwhelming your look. It should complement your tie, not match it exactly.

  • For black-tie events, go for a crisp white silk or linen pocket square.

  • For formal weddings, choose a subtle color or pattern that blends with your tie.

  • For semi-formal weddings, explore bolder prints or contrasting colors to add character.

Learn more about styling pocket squares to enhance your suit.

3. Cufflinks: The Ultimate Sign of Refinement

Cufflinks are small details that make a big impact. Whether you prefer simple metal designs or something more decorative, they add a personal and polished touch.

  • Silver or gold cufflinks → Ideal for black-tie and formal weddings.

  • Monogrammed cufflinks → Add a personal element while keeping it sophisticated.

  • Classic knot or minimal designs → Perfect for understated elegance.

Find refined cufflinks that complement your suit effortlessly.

4. Belts vs. Suspenders: Which to Wear?

Your choice of belt or suspenders should align with the suit’s formality and your personal preference.

  • Formal or black-tie weddings → Suspenders (especially with a tuxedo) create a sleek, seamless look.

  • Classic two-piece suits → A leather belt in black or brown, matching your shoes, adds a refined touch.

For more guidance on choosing the right belt or suspenders, read our men’s style guide.

5. Shoes: The Foundation of Your Look

The right dress shoes complete your ensemble and should match the formality of your suit.

  • Black-tie weddings → Patent leather oxford shoes provide a sleek and polished finish.

  • Formal weddings → Classic leather dress shoes in black or deep brown are a timeless choice.

  • Semi-formal weddings → Monk straps or brogues can add a touch of personality without looking too casual.

Explore formal dress shoes to ensure all-day comfort and style.

6. Watches: A Timeless Accessory

A classic timepiece adds elegance to your wedding look. Avoid digital or oversized watches, as they can disrupt the balance of your suit.

  • For formal and black-tie weddings → A sleek dress watch with a leather strap in black or brown works best.

  • For semi-formal events → A minimalist stainless steel watch offers a refined, polished touch.

For more insights on choosing the perfect wedding watch, check out this guide.

7. Tie Bars & Lapel Pins: The Small Details That Matter

Tie bars and lapel pins are subtle yet impactful accessories that enhance your look.

  • A tie bar keeps your tie in place and adds a sleek finish. Choose silver or gold for versatility.

  • A lapel pin should be minimal and elegant, adding sophistication without being over-the-top.

Discover timeless wedding accessories to complete your outfit.

Conclusion

As the father of the bride and father of the groom, the right accessories help you look polished, refined, and confident on the big day. 

Choosing the right tie, pocket square, cufflinks, shoes, and subtle details allows you to complement the wedding theme without overshadowing the couple.

Carpe Diem Men offers a handpicked selection of premium accessories, ensuring every father looks his best for this special occasion.

Visit Carpe Diem Men at 569 Danforth Avenue, Toronto, or book a consultation today to find the perfect wedding accessories tailored to your style.











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