What Should the Father of the Bride and Father of the Groom Wear? A Guide to Wedding Dress Codes

Weddings are joyous occasions, and as the father of the bride and father of the groom, your attire plays an important role in the celebration.

Dressing appropriately not only enhances your confidence but also complements the wedding’s theme and formality.

1. Understand the Wedding Dress Code

Before selecting your outfit, consider the invitation and consult the couple about the event’s dress code. 

Formal weddings might require a tuxedo, while a semi-formal affair could call for a tailored suit.

If the wedding is casual or outdoors, lighter fabrics and colors might be more appropriate. 

Understanding the theme ensures your attire harmonizes with the overall style of the event. For further insights, visit our page on men's suits for weddings.

For additional tips on dress codes, visit The Knot's wedding dress code tips.

2. Match the Wedding’s Color Scheme

Coordinate your outfit with the wedding's color palette. 

Subtle nods to the couple’s chosen hues can elevate your look without overshadowing the groom or bride.

Consider a tie, pocket square, or boutonniere in complementary colors. 

Learn how to incorporate colors effectively by exploring our blog on how to accessorize your suit.

3. Choose the Right Suit or Tuxedo

The suit or tuxedo you choose should reflect the event's formality. For black-tie weddings, a classic tuxedo with a bow tie is a timeless choice.

Formal weddings may also warrant a dark suit in navy, charcoal, or black paired with a crisp white shirt. 

For semi-formal or casual celebrations, a light gray suit or beige jacket paired with tailored trousers strikes the right balance. 

Learn more about perfect men’s suits for various occasions.

4. Fit Matters Most

No matter the style or color, a proper fit is essential. 

An ill-fitted suit can detract from even the most elegant outfit.

Consider professional tailoring to ensure the jacket, trousers, and shirt fit impeccably. 

Carpe Diem Men offers in-house tailoring services to guarantee a polished and sophisticated appearance.

5. Don’t Forget Accessories

Accessories complete your look and add personal flair. 

A pocket square, cufflinks, and a high-quality belt or suspenders can elevate your outfit.

Shoes should be polished and appropriate for the formality of the event. For black-tie events, patent leather shoes are a staple. 

Explore our blog on essential suit accessories to refine your ensemble.

6. Consider the Venue and Season

A beach wedding calls for different attire than a winter ceremony. 

Consider the venue, climate, and season when selecting fabrics and colors.

Linen suits or lighter fabrics work well for summer and outdoor weddings, while wool or tweed suits provide warmth and elegance for colder months. 

For additional inspiration, explore our collection of men's outerwear.

7. Communicate With the Groom and Other Fathers

Coordinate with the groom and the father of the bride or groom to ensure your attire aligns with the wedding party.

Consistency among the fathers adds a polished touch to the event.

Discussing your outfit choices avoids any accidental mismatches or overlaps with the groomsmen's attire. 

Learn more about wedding tips for men.

8. Stay True to Your Style

While adhering to the dress code is important, your outfit should still reflect your personality. 

Choose elements that make you feel comfortable and confident while honoring the formality of the event.

Whether it’s a bold tie, a signature watch, or unique cufflinks, subtle personal touches can make your look truly yours. 

Visit our accessories page to find the perfect finishing touches.

9. Grooming and Presentation

Your grooming is as important as your attire. 

Ensure your suit is clean and pressed, your shoes are polished, and your hair and beard (if applicable) are well-groomed.

Attention to detail enhances your overall appearance and reflects the significance of the day. 

For tips on maintaining your outfit, check out our guide on how to take care of your tuxedo.

Conclusion

Dressing as the father of the bride and father of the groom is about celebrating the couple while maintaining elegance and sophistication. 

By understanding the dress code, coordinating with the wedding party, and focusing on fit and details, you’ll ensure you look impeccable for this special occasion.

Visit Carpe Diem Men at 569 Danforth Avenue in Toronto or book a consultation to find the perfect outfit for the big day.